They are going to those reunions and you should too. You don’t have to sing or be an actor, you can buy a ticket and get the chance to hang out with local queers.You don’t have to be into public speaking to show up and support others who are out there teaching the public about being LGBT.We couldn’t wait to get out of high school and never go back.I’m not saying you have to go back, but between high school and college class reunions people make a lot of changes in life direction and often that includes sexual orientation. The age that individuals are coming out is dropping and in part because young people today have access to so much more information via the Internet. What I also see is more and more people in their 40s, 50s and beyond coming out. Animal Shelters, political and activist organizations and events and whatever else lights you up; the local theatre group, the gay or lesbian chorus in your area, the LGBT Community Center, the Anti-Hate Program, anti-bullying projects, Speak Out and so many other variations on this theme.There are always behind the scenes things that need to happen and every show needs a friendly audience.And don’t forget that one of the easiest ways to meet your LGBT family is to volunteer for your local PRIDE events.So, let’s open up a few more closet doors, move beyond your local Starbucks, explore some options to create a treasure map for where LGBT people hang out and where you can go looking for connections. Harvard did a lecture series for 2012 that involved a collaboration between leading researchers and world class chefs. Libraries do them; nonprofits do them; museums do them; aquariums, historic sites, audubon groups and activists of all sorts do them. It could be a fundraiser to fight cancer like the Maine Tri for a Cure that many lesbians love to support or how about LGBT civil rights events.Yeah, you’ll meet straight folks but lots of them know LGBT people these days. The University of Maryland and San Diego State University both host as annual LGBT lecture series and there are so many other colleges that do this. One of my favorites is Art Erotica that is put on by the Octopus Club in Austin, Texas to raise money to provide emergency financial assistance to those living with HIV and AIDS in Central Texas.
We all want our kids to be in environments that are positive and affirming for them. has recently made it unusually painful to search their site these days so use my “go to” search source, Google. I typed in “transgender meetup groups” and there were three million hits.They have over 7,000 entries worldwide of churches that are gay welcoming along with a number of other spiritually focused resources and links.We’re out there, all over the place but you’ve got to get out of the house! Being LGBT means being extra special, but it also means being extra hard to find … It’s not always fun; it’s not always productive and though it’s interesting to meet that bottom boy in Alaska online, that’s a hook-up that won’t happen if you live in Miami.
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