So I find it hilarious when I see women hate on older men for chasing younger girls when often find older men sexy. It’s easy to critique others for their desires but when we look at ourselves, we suddenly get a free pass. And so many women are fed up dealing with “immature boys” and prefer to date older guys. Did you consciously choose to like those qualities throughout your life? That’s why I think calling someone shallow for their physical preferences is ignorant.Those guys tend to earn better wages and therefore be better providers. They’re more cultured and have more world experience. And thinking young women are sexy falls into that category — you have nothing to be ashamed of.Not to say that they're not happy for a while -- certainly Demi and Ashton have appeared to be, as well as the eight couples in a 2006 study by Sandra L. Proulx in which the wives were a decade or more older than their husbands (an admittedly small sample).
This taboo makes some of my clients feel shameful about their age preferences.OKCupid data shows that men of all ages find women in their early to mid-20’s to be the most attractive. Our main attraction switches are a youthful, healthy physical appearance.Women tend to find men their own age most attractive even until they’re both in their 40’s. This goes back to our biological need to “spread our seed”.And they generally have more self-confidence as they know who they are. — When it comes to this subject, older men are painted as shallow horndogs manipulating younger women. But what about all the couples who fall into this category (including my parents) who are in love or married for decades? Are you saying these women are coerced and manipulated into being with these men?Combine women’s desire for a strong, mature man and men’s desire for a young, healthy woman to bear children and it all makes sense. Attraction is an emotion that we can’t help but feel. These women are willingly and happily choosing these men.
You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.