So you need to be contacting many different women until you find the one that is in the right frame of mind and will give you a shot. Choose the attributes that the type of woman you desire is likely to seek. The next part of creating a killer profile is to use a nice photo of yourself. I’m not either, yet I still have tons of success meeting women online. We see a hottie and the first thought is “must…contact her…now!
That is exactly why you should be active on multiple sites. Women are more likely to contact a guy that is less physically attractive, yet has an awesome profile, than a more attractive guy with a crummy profile. ” Women see an attractive guy, smile, and immediately go read every last word of his profile before deciding if they want to contact him. However, they will be turned off immediately if your picture portrays you as a complete slob. This is the mentality I have when attempting to attract women online.
So if your profile content exceeds the amount of words I’ve written up to this point, do some editing.
With that said, a profile that is too short won’t make women care to contact you.
No matter how great your profile is and how strong your pickup lines are, sometimes there’s no way the woman you contact is going to even give you the time of day. So if a girl wants a male that is 30-40 years old, enjoys poetry, doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t live in his mom’s basement, she will receive a list of profiles that match this criterion. Most women make their FIRST yes / no decision based on your profile pic.
Let’s face it – women have a tendency to not be able to make up their minds. If your profile attributes do not match any of those, she won’t ever so much as see your profile. If you’re into tomboys, for example, she’s likely to be attracted to men that are into sports. Just like you wouldn’t want a sports-hating woman if you were a sports junkie. Take it easy, slick, don’t go running away because you’re not Brad Pitt.
Diversify your online dating portfolio, sell yourself, and start scoring some dates! Take a look at the profiles of different women on your dating site. The best way to get women to initiate contact with you first is by writing a killer profile. All you have to do is comb your hair, dress decent, and smile. I’m always trying to sell myself in a manner that women are receptive to.
Having a profile and not being an active member will do you no good. There are so many factors that come into play when women determine if they think you’re a suitable mate.When you sign-up for multiple dating sites, there’s still no guarantee you will so much as meet a girl.Just like when you’re selling a product, you might pitch that product to 500 ready buyers and not land a single sale. Then day three, four, five, six, twenty, thirty, etc. That’s when I realized a 2 sentence snippet about how awesome you are at Modern Warfare 3), searching the member directory and contacting women that interest you, and responding to your messages in a timely manner. I’ve already mentioned my basic reasoning for being active on multiple sites.How could any woman NOT be impressed by that type of profile? Go into detail about the activities you enjoy and the things you are passionate about – unless that passion happens to be for playing video games into the wee hours of the morning.As long as the activity would interest the women you are trying to attract, talk about it.
Online dating is (for a man), a mix between investing and being a salesman.